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THIS
FATHER KNOWS BEST!
Suffolk County Legislator Jon Cooper
by Jed
Ryan
Speaking
with Suffolk
County Legislator Jonathan Cooper is a revelation. In
this day and age, so many of us live in happy isolation in
our own little worlds, oblivious to what's going on in the
national or international scene, or even on Long Island. It
also seems that cynicism about our political leaders has become
something of an inborn American trait. Any citizen who feels
skeptical that a local politician could really care about
the needs of his/her constituents; or who questions how much
of a difference that one man or woman can really make, should
look at the achievements of Mr. Jon Cooper. In November 1999,
Jon Cooper was the first openly gay person elected as a Legislator
on Long Island. For this reason alone, the soft-spoken, sincere
Mr. Cooper has become a hero for the Long Island gay and lesbian
community and proof that sexual orientation need not be a
barrier to meeting any of our professional or creative goals.
"My winning has had an impact. It's a sign that ANYTHING
is possible," Jon stated "Breaking down stereotypes
and barriers, and educating people is a day-to-day battle.
It won't happen overnight. It's not just about being gay.
It's about being able to be OPENLY gay. So many gay
people remain closeted-- teachers, cops, scientists, politicians--
for fear of losing their jobs. That's one of the reasons why
SONDA (The Sexual Orientation Non-Discrimination Act) is so
important."
Jon
Cooper boasts a long, impressive list of legislative accomplishments
which could more than hold its own alongside the achievements
of older, more seasoned politicians. Since 1978, Jon has run
Spectronics
Corporation, a company with 200 employees that is
one of the few remaining manufacturing firms on Long Island.
But there's more to Mr. Cooper than a professional resume.
He and his partner of 20 years, Rob, also proudly serve in
the role of "Dad." While the issue of gay men and
lesbians having children can hardly be considered revolutionary
today, we must remember that when Jon and Rob adopted their
oldest of five children 16 years ago, they were among the
first. Being a parent has always been an under appreciated
job. But out of all the hats that Jon Cooper wears, being
a father is what he is most proud about and most identifies
with. "If I had to choose between being Legislator, businessman,
or parent, there would be absolutely no question which I'd
choose," he stated. Jon and Rob have built up a large
network of support which includes many gay couples with children
as well as straight couples with kids. Back in 1998, Newsday
presented a five-page story about Jon, Rob, and family, with
full color pictures. Jon stated that he learned later that
Newsday
was just a bit wary about any negative backlash they'd possibly
receive. But to both Jon's and Newsday's delight, there were
over 300 letters of support-- and only two or three letters
of disapproval. Jon and Rob became local celebrities, and
were approached by 20/20,
HBO, "Good
Morning America," CBS,
and many more about doing a profile about their "unorthodox"
household. Among the TV shows the family appeared on was a
PBS special
called "Our
House" which aired in June 2000. "It
would take a while to remember all the coverage we got!"
Jon stated about the overwhelming attention that his family
receives. Jon states that meeting the local kids and their
parents is one of the most rewarding aspects about his job
as Legislator. He volunteered as a coach for 12 seasons in
the Cold
Spring Harbor/Huntington Soccer League. "I guess
I'm just a big kid myself!," Jon added with a chuckle.
Jon
has been an unyielding positive presence in the gay and lesbian
community, donating his political status and his scant spare
time and energy to important causes for gay men and lesbians.
Jon was a cosponsor of legislation that will strengthen Suffolk
County's human rights law and prohibit discrimination in employment
and housing based on sexual orientation. The bill was approved
by the County Legislature but was unfortunately vetoed by
the County Executive. An amended bill will be coming before
the Legislature in the upcoming weeks, and Jon states that
he fully expects it to be approved and signed into law. Jon
is the Huntington Chair of the Gay Democrats of Suffolk
County. He also offers financial support to many GLBT
organizations including The
Empire State Pride Agenda, the Gay
and Lesbian Victory Fund, CHOLI (Community House
of Long Island), and the East
End Gay Organization (EEGO). Barry
Jones and Jim Coppola of GALFOLI
have chosen to honor Jon Cooper, who Barry calls, "the
perfect role model for gay youth," at the Dock
of the Bay Summer Party on August 19, 2001. Jon was
selected as a Grand Marshall in the 2000 Long
Island Pride Parade. Anyone that knows Jon knows that
despite his frenetic schedule and many commitments, he is
very warm, approachable, and never too busy to listen to fellow
members of the community.
Jon spends
about half his time working for Spectronics,
and the other half working as Legislator.
Between these commitments and being a parent of five, what
motivates Jon Cooper? Jon told me that his business had been
very successful, but Jon wanted more. He wanted to give back
to his community. On Thanksgiving weekend 1999, Jon learned
of a family from his community who experienced a tragedy at
least partially attributed to the use of a hand-held cell
phone while driving. What happened afterward became a personal
mission and cause for which Jon is probably best known (so
far!) . In April 2000, Jon
introduced legislation to ban the use of hand-held cell phones
while driving in Suffolk County. Similar bills had been
introduced before in 27 different states, but tremendous opposition
from cell phone companies prevented their passage. Jon became
a common sight on CNN,
and also appeared on NBC
Nightly News to gain support for his cause and to raise
awareness about the danger of talking on the cell phone and
driving at the same time. He learned of dozens of other tragic
stories, and over 150 phone calls were received at the District
Office in support of the legislation. The bill passed
in September 2000, and was signed into law on October 26,
2000-- making Suffolk the first county with such a law in
the nation . New York State soon followed suit. Jon has since
then introduced between 70 to 80 bills, including a number
which were the first of their kind for New York State and
one which was the first of its kind in the nation. The cell
phone crusade and others show that Jon Cooper cares about
the safety of his constituents and isn't influenced by partisanship
or special interest groups, personal gain, or personal glory.
This is also demonstrated by his choice of causes, which include
his own commitment to environmental issues (He sponsored legislation
banning the sale of mercury-containing thermometers) and public
safety issues (He sponsored legislation banning the sale of
herbal cigarettes to minors.). " I have a conscience,"
Jon proudly declares. "I don't accept large contributions
for the purpose of influencing my decisions. I prefer to accept
small amounts from a broad base of support. I'm independent,
and I don't owe anyone any favors or answer to anyone. When
I go home at night, I need to be able to justify what I did
that day. I'm proud of every bill I introduce. They affect
the people that live in my district and county."
Suffolk
County Legislator Jon Cooper has restored many people's faith
in the political system. He states that he gets a lot of positive
feedback for his work, from teenagers to senior citizens.
He states that being a role model and inspiration for his
youngest constituents is what he feels most proud about. Jon
concludes, "As a parent, it's exciting to know that so
many things are changing for the better. The younger generation
will benefit from that." Jon Cooper is uncompromising
in his goals for the gay and lesbian community. When asked
about his expectations for our future, he states "I'd
like to see COMPLETE acceptance!" With Jon Cooper
among our leaders on the long road to equality, we can all
have high hopes. It's clear that THIS father knows
best!
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Jones & Jim Coppola
Helen of 608... 'Nuff Said!
Camille's Crusade
Tom Maligno: Unsung Hero
Photos
by: Louis Trapani (c) 2001
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